Love Rouge Diary

We-Vibe 3 Review

Thu, 26 Apr 2012 01:37:00 GMT

Rouge Rating – 4.5 out of 5

For a few months I was experiencing discomfort during sex and thought I had ‘lost’ my orgasm (like Samantha did in SATC!). Apparently this was due to ‘dyspareunia’ (worth wikipeding) and my mental state was perpetuating the problem; I would expect to experience discomfort during sex, so would tense up and couldn’t fully relax, thus self-perpetuating the discomfort I was experiencing. An evil cycle one could say… And this affected my partner and our love life – he couldn’t help but be concerned and conscious of whether he was ‘hurting’ me during love-making, so we were both in a difficult mental place in the bedroom.

And then along came the We-Vibe 3. The amazing toy that totally broke the cycle and helped me rediscover my orgasm after months of frustration. Having something new in the bedroom created a sense of excitement that distracted us from our concerns. The double stimulation on my g-spot and clitoris was so effective, I forgot about all of my issues and just became really turned on. Seeing me so excited got my partner really excited, and our sex life has been back on track ever since!

My partner had never experimented with sex toys before and the We-Vibe 3 is perfect because it is not big and phallic – it’s a classy, curved shape with a deep purple colour – not intimidating or threatening at all. It's quiet as a mouse and waterproof - handy if I feel like surprising my partner in the shower! But, so you know, lube is a must – bed, bath and beyond!

And a new feature of the We-Vibe 3 is the remote control, which allows you to scroll through the 6 thrilling vibration settings – including my favourite an increasing low to hard vibration loop. A testament to males and their love of remotes, my partner gets a kick out of watching me react as he changes the mode on the sly…!

What I like best about the We-Vibe 3 is that it’s so versatile – it’s pleasurable for both people and it’s great for foreplay and during sex (and when I’m on my own too!). My partner says the vibration keeps him really hard when we’re having sex. And during foreplay, we both really like it when he uses his hand to push the We-Vibe into me and hold it in place as he switches through the vibration modes and stimulates my breasts. I have orgasmed from just this, using the strong vibration setting. But you don’t need to hold the We-Vibe 3place, I just like the added pressure. In fact, I’m impressed by how it stays in place for all types of positions.

While on the design, I love the box that the We-Vibe 3 is stored and charged in – it is so innocuous, it kind of looks like an air freshener case. It’s great, because I feel comfortable keeping it on my bedside table, next to my book and bottle of water!

Amazing product – love it, love it, LOVE IT!

Submitted by Love Rouge Customer, Jane

A straight girls guide to a lesbian fling

Tue, 03 Apr 2012 02:35:00 GMT

Ladies, let us be frank shall we? How many of you at some point have looked upon another gal with lustful eyes? Those stolen glances in the gym at the tanned toned hottie on the hip abductor. I guarantee your first thought was not “those purple spandex really compliment her skin tone”, but rather... “I wonder what her body looks like soapy wet and naked in the shower.”

There I said!

Female same-sex desire has never been more accepted, glamorised and celebrated than in this fabulous knicker twitching 21^st century we find ourselves in. Hallelujah to that!

Want to know something else? Your horny little men folk will not be harmed by this truth. They are not living in fear of the day that bedroom talk drifts into the realms of taboo, when their dearly beloved suggests a ‘female third wheel’ could be fun. They’re working their way through your contact list as you speak.

But before embarking upon such a bold, brave new adventure, there are a few things you should know. After all...no one wants to get lost in the bush!

First things first, pick the right girl. You probably already have your eye on a potential pounce, but unless she is Scandinavian, speaks little English and is on a Working Holiday Visa it could get complicated.

Start with a gay girl, one you are certain has previously circumnavigated the clitoral terrain. That said, your chosen lady lover should not, and I repeat NOT be known to you under the following circumstances:

● The satchel carrying, side fringe-sporting co-worker who has already offered you her spare ticket to Sia

● Your most closest, clingy friend who encourages arguments with your partner and watches you whilst you sleep

● Your gay aunt – we all have one

If this then leaves you short for choice – hit those homosexual hotspots. Nothing lubricates the sexual juices more than a Sapphic spot on the edge of town, with a liberal door policy and two-for-one Smirnoff Ice. Who has time for cocktails and table service when there’s work to be done?

If you reach this stage in your budding lesbian career, you are well on your way to discovering what ‘eating out’ truly means. I’m not talking about a table for 2 by the window in your local bistro!

But I digress.

Lesbian sex...the petrifying thought of finding your head between a girl’s legs and kissing her where she wees. You’re asking yourself “Am I really up for the challenge” and more importantly “Will I be any good?"

Fear not my sisters...fear not!

Explorers on their first lesbian field trip are rarely expected to take the reins. In fact, most gay girls agree that there is nothing more satisfying than pleasuring an inexperienced other, meaning your lack of prior experience has put you in the perfect possible position.

What exactly have you got to lose? Besides the feeling of having your precious love bean wooed by the tongue of an expert! The sensation of her soft, silky skin on your skin and her gentle, hopefully hair- free lips pressing against yours.

Have I convinced you yet?

No amount of lesbian porn watching will prepare you for the real thing and certainly no lesbian I know has nails that long. So return those top shelf DVDs and do what you know your friends would like to do, what your mother wouldn’t allow herself to do and what your grandmother only did a few times during the war.

And if you find the Isle of Dildos-a-plenty too daunting; if KD Lang has never nor will ever make it onto your playlist....you can return unscathed to your previous life of high tea, baby showers and Sunday football.

The choice is yours!

Brit Merlot xx

Vibrators are not the enemy - a modern male perspective...

Mon, 23 Apr 2012 11:44:00 GMT

I used to have a rule that no vibrator that is larger than my manhood was allowed in the house. Call me self conscious, but the idea of an inanimate object being more capable of satisfying my partner wasn't exactly appealing.

After seven years together one day my girlfriend brought home a small black vibrating cock ring (gentlemen's ring she calls it!), which I now know as the Lelo Tor. It opened up my eyes to a whole new world of bedroom play. We've since moved on to the couples vibrator the We Vibe 3. It even comes with a remote for that added element of surprise!

With gentle experimentation being the operative word, the combination of remote controls, couples vibes, a blindfold and some subtle angles made for some mind blowing experiences.

So rather than viewing toys as the enemy, I wholeheartedly recommend slowly introducing something into your lovemaking sessions, after some open consultation with your partner. After all, its a two way street, and a happy and satisfied partner can only make for a happy man!!!!!

Submitted by Love Rouge customer, Mr F

Lelo Insignia Range

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 21:36:00 GMT

Lelo Insignia- the Waterproof range

Is this possible the best vibrator in the world? Well we think so! Not only is it super stylish with its gold trimmed finish, rechargeable (like a mobile phone) , but to top it off it is the first collection of waterproof designs that LELO have made.

There's 2 real benefits for this;

Not only can you use it for bath-time play, but it also makes for an easier cleaning as you can simply run under the tap, without fear of damaging the controls.

With 3 of the Insignia range to choose from Lelo Alia, a delicate shaped ring, Lelo Isla the sleek sister, and finally the most popular to date; Lelo Soraya with it's little bunny ear attached.

The Art of Sensual Massage....

Sun, 27 Feb 2011 05:22:00 GMT

With the introduction of the new LELO Flickering massage range, we give our top tips for setting the scene for a sensual massage.

Remember too, that these products are the entree to a delicious main course which is sure to follow with the Lelo Pleasure Object collection.

> Ambiance Start by making sure that the room is warm enough, and by having your partner lie on a firm surface that allows their muscles to be adequately supported. Soft lighting by candlelight and soothing scents help limit the distractions in the room, putting the focus on your partner’s comfort and pleasure.

> Application Pour a liberal amount of oil into your hand and rub your hands together to warm up the oil to body temperature. Remember that a certain amount of oil will be absorbed into the skin, so be sure to apply as often as needed to maintain proper lubrication.

> Touch Placing both palms on the center of your partner’s back, slowly work them up to their shoulders. Circle around the outside of their shoulders and then slowly work down to the base of their spine. This basic stroke spreads the oil evenly and will familiarize your partner to your hands, allowing you to gauge where they are most receptive to your touch.

> Variation Try different strokes and pressures, shifting your focus to the not-so-obvious pleasure points such as the insides of arms and the sides of the body. This lengthens the experience and lets your partner know that the focus is solely on them. Don’t apply pressure directly to their spine or shoulder blades, but rather around them, using your thumbs or fingers in slow, circular movements.

> Communication Ask your partner about their desires and tune in to their non-verbal cues to see what excites them most. Whether you are massaging to relax them, relieve tension, or arouse their excitement, being close and sharing a warm touch is the secret to the most satisfying massage.

Lelo Accesories on their way...

Mon, 08 Nov 2010 07:26:00 GMT

Lelo the Swedish Pleasure Object range have expanded their sensual range into bedroom lovers accessories, which include silk ties, blindfolds and other decadent lover's accouterments.

Coming in the same exquisite, stylish packaging the range is sure not to disappoint with its sumptuous satin and silk fabrics.

Silk Teddy - One of our favourites!

Sun, 27 Feb 2011 05:24:00 GMT

New stock just in to our Sydney lingerie Boutique is the Sally Jones range for Autumn/ Winter 2010.

One of the items that really caught our eye is the Charlotte Grey Silk teddy. A charcoal grey slate coloured 100% silk teddy trimmed with soft ivory lace we absolutely adore this little number. In fact one of them was snapped up on the spot by our lingerie fiend Anna who works in the store and teaches some of our Burlesque classes.